Without knowing the specifics, all I can say is that sometimes people break up amicably and stay friends. Friends look out for each other. I don't think it's improbable that "wait, you've known this guy how long? And you want to take trips together?" could be spoken by a male or female friend without ill intent.skb12172 wrote:Why is her ex even a factor??? He should be a non-player, non-issue in your relationship.
...a Nice Guy(tm) is a guy who thinks that he deserves sex/a romantic relationship for showing basic civility. Women hate that... and I've never read any of that into any Precision post I've seen. He seems more than capable of standing up for himself.I will say that in the posts where you have described your romantic activities, you come across as a Nice Guy. That is death with modern women. They will use and abuse you mercilessly.
...okay, real talk.Here, this might help. At the least, it will be food for thought.
Linking someone to Roosh during a rough patch with a lady is fucking toxic. I don't know why you think it would be constructive to link to a screed from that miserable pervert. His post is basically a paint-by-numbers guide to making sure your relationship is as petty, miserable, and hopefully short-lived as possible. Paranoia and depredation writ between the sheets.
I would never, ever want to share a relationship, let alone a house, with someone I had to browbeat into submission in a mutually abusive game of "dick move" chicken. I wouldn't wish that on anyone. I don't think anyone without a huge power exchange kink would be able to make that work in anything approaching a healthy manner.